Sex Aware will be a section of the site providing a
resource for those that would like to know more about various aspects of sex
and the sex trade eg:
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Safe Sex and practical information about STDs
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Articles on a wider view of sexual wellbeing
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Positive views and research on the subject of sex
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| 30th November |
Finland Win... |
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Finns enjoy the most sex partners in international survey
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Based on
article
from
women.timesonline.co.uk
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British
men and women are now the most promiscuous of any big western industrial
nation, researchers have found.
In an international index measuring one-night stands, total numbers of
partners and attitudes to casual sex, Britain comes out ahead of
Australia, the US, France, the Netherlands, Italy and Germany.
The researchers behind the study say high scores such as Britain’s may
be linked to the way society is increasingly willing to accept sexual
promiscuity among women as well as men. They also believe that, among
certain age groups and at certain times, men and women are equally
liberal.
The researchers say that cultural developments have meant women are now
as able to engage in no-strings sex as men. Historically we have
repressed women’s short-term mating and there are all sorts of double
standards out there where men’s short-term mating was sort of acceptable
but women’s wasn’t, said David Schmitt, a professor of psychology at
Bradley University, Illinois, who oversaw the research.
The study was conducted by asking more than 14,000 people in 48
countries to fill in anonymous questionnaires. Respondents were asked
about numbers of partners and one-night stands, and their attitudes were
assessed by asking them how many people they expected to sleep with over
the next five years and how comfortable they were with the idea of
casual sex.
The results were combined into an index of so-called sociosexuality,
the term used by evolutionary psychologists as a measure of how sexually
liberal people are in thought and behaviour. Most individuals scored
between 4 and 65.
The country with the highest rating was Finland, with an average of 51.
Taiwan came lowest, with 19.
Britain scored 40, placing it 11th overall, behind countries such as
Latvia, Croatia and Slovenia - but it was highest among the major
western industrial nations. The first tranche of research was published
in 2005 but analyses have continued and Schmitt described the latest in
this week’s edition of New Scientist.
Britain’s ranking was ascribed to factors such as the decline of
religious scruples about extramarital sex, the growth of equal pay and
equal rights for women and a highly sexualised popular culture.
The high scores in many Baltic and eastern European states might be
linked, Schmitt said, to the fact that women outnumber men and so are
under more pressure to conform to what men want in order to find a mate.
In Asian countries, by contrast, men tend to outnumber women slightly,
so it is men who have to conform.
Majors League (OECD countries with populations over 10m)
- UK
- Germany
- Netherlands
- Czech Republic
- Australia
- USA
- France
- Turkey
- Mexico
- Canada
- Italy
- Poland
- Spain
- Greece
- Portugal
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| 13th November |
The Naked Truth... |
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Porn mags are here to stay in Thailand
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See full
article
from
bangkokpost.com
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Despite
the fast growth in popularity of downloadable pornography, the existence
of porn magazines still stands strong.
With the minimum wage hovering around 144 baht a day, it comes as no
surprise that as few as 20.5 per cent of Thais are Internet users,
according to Internet World Stats. Although DVDs and downloadable clips
are becoming more widespread, it is merely among those who can afford
such devices, and the demand for porn magazines is still there for those
who cannot.
There is a broad range of porn magazines, from romance novels with sex
scenes to hardcore porn, from heterosexual porn to homosexual porn. Her
area of research is male-oriented heterosexual porn magazines for people
in low-income brackets, which turn out to be read not only by the poor.
There was something quite surprising when I researched pornography. In
the US, low-end porn magazines actually do very well among middle- or
upper-middle-class readers. It is a way of distancing themselves from
the content and looking at the experience as an adventurous exploration
into an unknown land different from their everyday life.
Pornography is illegal in Thailand, with stronger legal enforcement
during the past few years. But instead of wiping out porn magazines,
such enforcement only forces porn magazines to survive through more
discreet distribution. In a way, it is like the Twilight Zone. They are
still available at many newsstands, but they are just not openly
displayed.
Nonetheless, dissemination of pornography is an offence subject to a
range of other legal consequences, including three years' imprisonment,
a 6,000 baht fine or both. For the sake of survival, porn magazines have
been altered and camouflaged to protect the publishers, as well as
distributors. The cover is made less obvious. There is no printing year
or address, to prevent the publishers from being traced back through the
magazines.
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| 10th October |
Not Shy... |
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Adult films popular with many Danish women
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Based on
article
from
jp.dk
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Danish
women are not shy when it comes to pornography, according to figures
from the porn film and TV business. A recent poll by TSN Gallup showed
that 66,000 women in the country aged between 21 and 50 had tuned into
city TV station Kanal København's late-night porn programme within the
past month.
In addition, the nation's leading seller of porn movies reports that
women customers contribute to a significant portion of their sales.
It's definitely a step by step development, but movies for women and
couples are very much in demand, Barny Nygaard, head of BN Agentur,
told TV2 News.
A study conducted last year by psychologist Gert Martin Hald also
suggests young Danish women are watching more pornography. He found that
50% of the 372 women he asked said they had watched a porn video within
the past six months.
It also appears from the study that women are more likely than men to
want to use a porn movie when they're with their partners, said Hald.
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| 26th September |
Stimulating Reviews... |
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Sex toys that work
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Based on
article
from
independent.co.uk
by Tracey Cox
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There's
an alarming array of sex toys out there, so, to help you along, here is a
selection of toys that work.
If you're a heterosexual couple and you make only one purchase, it has to be
a vibrator, simply because they remain the easiest, most effective way to
bring women to orgasm. The clitoris loves consistent, intense stimulation
and nothing provides that more efficiently than a vibrator. What to choose?
There's everything from a rubber duck to something that looks like it should
be in a cage. The most versatile in terms of size and all-round use is
probably what's called a "classic" or "torpedo" vibe. It's a compact,
cylindrical vibrator that you hold against the clitoris while he's using his
fingers or during intercourse. It's non-threatening for him because it's not
big or sculpted to look like a penis and it's small enough not to feel too
intrusive.
Bullet vibes look like large tampons, are often made of metal and sit snugly
between the vaginal lips, providing strong clitoral stimulation. These are
very couple friendly: perfect for caressing nipples, around the rim of your
bottom anywhere you fancy a bit of a buzz really. Add perfect portability,
sleek and sexy designs and you'll understand why they've shot to the top of
the bestseller list. Also ingenious are butterfly vibrators with harnesses.
A small vibrator nestles inside a jelly butterfly-shaped sleeve. This is
positioned on top of her clitoris, the straps then go around both her legs
to hold it in place. Turn it on and the butterfly wings flutter over her
most sensitive part. The main advantage is that it's hands-free so you can
leave it in place during intercourse.
Another more recent "intercourse" vibrator is one that's designed to be worn
both internally and externally during intercourse, upping her chances of
penetrative orgasm dramatically. The appropriately named We-Vibe is small
and C-shaped about three inches long and one inch wide. You turn it on,
insert one end up to the bend and, because it's flexible, the whole thing
then opens to an "L" shape. The larger clitoral pad sits against the labia
and against the clitoris, the other end works on the G-spot. It flattens out
so smoothly, he can't feel it during sex but he does feel the powerful
vibrations. (available exclusively through
www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Vibrating penis rings are also a great idea. They're penis rings usually
rubber with little vibrators attached for clitoral stimulation. I was
unconvinced when I first saw them. The reason why? If you use traditional
in-out thrusting, the vibrator doesn't maintain contact with the clitoris
for long enough to be effective. Use a grinding, circular motion, however,
with him keeping his pelvis pressed close against hers during intercourse,
and you may get a very pleasant surprise. I've got one in my range at
www.traceycoxshop.co.uk
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| 22nd September |
Ramping Up Sales... |
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Sex toys featured in the movies sell well
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Based on
article
from
thesun.co.uk
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George
Clooney can currently be seen starring in the Coen brothers’ film Burn After
Reading, in which he plays a sex addict who has is an expert on the X-rated
products.
The film features two real adult toys, The Liberator Ramp and The Silky, and sex
shops across America have reported a surge in sales since the film came out.
One said: Small mentions of adult products in mainstream media can have an
outsized effect on sales.
From
www.liberator.com
Liberator Ramp offers support with a deep slope elevation. It strategically
lifts your lover's hips to an altitude of 12 inches, offering access at critical
angles that accentuate sensitivity. It's time to teach your old doggie-style
some new tricks. The key to perfect rear-entry penetration is supported
elevation. Supported elevation prevents falling forward, slipping, sore elbows
and wrists and hips buried in the mattress. With Ramp a couple can sustain the
doggie-style position for longer, more satisfying sessions.
Other Ramp specialties include positions off the side of the bed and an
unbeatable girl-on-top ride.
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| 14th September |
Philips Feel the Vibes... |
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Philips to launch a range of sex toys
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Based on
article
from
telegraph.co.uk
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The
Dutch electronics company, Philips, said it will launch a range of sex
toys in Selfridges and Boots stores.
Jayson Otke, a Philips spokesman, said the products are designed to
enhance couples' sexual well-being, and are specifically target the
hitherto "neglected" group of sex toy users aged between 35 and 55.
Otke said the three new products will be called collectively the
Intimate Massage Range, consisting of the Warm Intimate Massage, the
Warm Massage and the Intimate Dual Massage.
They are attractive to look at, targeted at the over-35 market,
designed like beautiful stones with contours that vibrate and in a
tasteful purple case.
You would not be embarrassed to leave the product in full view of the
family. The products are marketed for couples, are none-penetrative, not
phallic shaped and are not meant to replace the partner but to enhance
the sex life of both partners.
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| 5th September |
Towards the Orgasmatron... |
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Sex toy coordinates stimulation with DVD movie fun
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Thanks to Jules
See further details at
www.mobxxx.com
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After
two years in evolution, the world’s first, intelligent, virtual sex toy
has arrived in the form of the MX.
The initial, serial port, robotic toy design has come a long way since
its inception and the MX, designed and created to synchronise with
especially encoded adult DVD content, works on internet protocol (IP)
networks (computers and television sets via set-top box services),
Bluetooth (mobile telephones) and other compatible remote media systems.
The MX website explains: Virtual sex has been spoken of since Woody
Allen’s 1973 film, Sleeper, introduced the world to a fictional
electromechanical device known as the orgasmatron. Now, for the first
time ever, this fictional concept has become a reality in the shape of
the MX.
The MX is available in both male and female variants; the male version
being a real-feel, jelly-flesh silicone sleeve and the female version
resembling a superior quality vibrator. Both have been embedded with
100% user safe encoded software motherboard and trigger modules which
mirror the accompanying, personally interactive, DVD content.
The MX has no wires and does not need to be attached to anything. The
male MX sleeve is fitted with a removable device consisting of a series
of six trigger point modules, four down the shaft and one on either said
of the base, each controlled in accordance with the on screen action.
For example, when the actress says she is going to lick the top of the
viewer’s penis and does so, the relevant trigger point module will
simulate that specific action, essentially meaning the MX will
kinaesthetically replicate the visual and aural stimuli.
The female MX is similarly controlled, with each of the multiple
functions of the vibrator triggered by the on screen action. For
example, should the actor say he is going to rub the viewer’s clitoris
and begins to do so, the related trigger point will vibrate accordingly.
A third MX design has been created especially for the gay market,
meaning it is essentially also the world’s first sex toy which
specifically caters for the active gay man. As with the other versions,
the gay MX works in conjunction with gay adult video content.
The MX prototypes have now undergone vigorous and independent testing
and the company is interested in speaking with toy manufacturers and
distributors about partnership options.
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| 23rd August |
Whatever Happened to... |
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Spray on condoms
Permalink |
Based on
article
from
time.com
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Edison
had his lightbulb, Ford had his Model T, and Jan Vinzenz Krause has his
spray-on condom.
Inspired by the mechanics of a drive-through car wash, the German
sexual-health educator designed a custom-fitting male contraceptive
using liquid latex and some materials from a hardware store.
As a teenager, Krause had trouble finding the right size condom, which
set him on a quest to aid other similarly befuddled young men. In 2001
he developed an online condom adviser, which provides printable
measuring tapes and instructions to help men determine which condom, out
of all the brands available in Germany, will fit the best. According to
Krause, more than 300,000 people have used the free service.
Hence his idea for a spray-on condom. The prototype, which began
testing last year, consists of a hard plastic tube with nozzles that
spray liquid latex from all directions, much like the water jets in the
tunnel of a car wash. According to Krause, there are numerous advantages
to his spray-on condom. The condom fits 100% perfectly, so the safety
is much higher than a standard condom's, and it feels more natural.
But the most serious problem with the design — which is what has kept
the product off the market thus far — is that the latex takes too long
to dry. Liquid latex currently takes two to three minutes to vulcanize,
making it impractical. For people to buy it, Krause says: it
needs to be ready in five to 10 seconds.
That has kept the spray-on condom on hold indefinitely until a
faster-drying latex comes along.
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| 8th August |
Prevention AIDS... |
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Promising trials of anti-retroviral drugs used to prevent AIDS transmission
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Based on
article
from
independent.co.uk
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Scientists
are developing a pill to be taken before sex that would stop
transmission of HIV. In the latest development in the battle against the
global epidemic, researchers are investigating whether drugs used to
treat the disease might be harnessed to protect against it.
Antiretroviral drugs are already used to prevent transmission from
mothers to their babies during birth and scientists hope the same
protection can be obtained during sex. If successful, the research would
raise ethical questions about the prevention of HIV, including who
should take such a drug, in what circumstances and with what risk of
side effects.
Three trials of antiretroviral drugs which are being given to uninfected
people at high risk of HIV are under way around the world and are
showing great promise, according to a report in The Lancet,
published to coincide with the International Conference on Aids in
Mexico City.
One British researcher said yesterday that the return of the bathhouse
culture among gay and bisexual men, involving sex with multiple
partners, could provide the scenario in which a preventive pill might be
taken.
Sheena McCormack, a specialist in HIV prevention and reader in clinical
epidemiology at Imperial College London, said: The party scene
involving multiple sexual partners is definitely back in London and
probably in most European cities. There is metrosexual mixing involving
gay, bisexual and some heterosexual cases. We estimate new HIV
infections in gay men in London are running at 3% a year.
Her clinic already offers post-exposure prophylaxis to people who
have had unprotected sex with someone in a high-risk group, involving a
month-long course of treatment with three drugs. But a preventive drug
would provide an extra option. People could pop a pill on a Friday
night and be covered for the whole weekend, she said.
On a global scale, use of a preventive pill would have to be restricted
to groups at highest risk, such as commercial sex workers or injecting
drug users, who would take it daily for the duration of their exposure.
Concerns about side effects and the development of resistant strains of
HIV would first have to be overcome.
The research is being driven by the lack of progress in the search for a
vaccine against HIV, and the failure of efforts to develop vaginal
microbicides to protect women which has left scientists determined to
find any chink in the virus's armour.
The trials include 2,400 injecting drug users in Thailand, 1,200
heterosexual men and women in Botswana and 3,000 men who have sex with
men in five countries. One trial is using tenofovir, a drug used to
treat Aids in the West, and two are using Truvada, a combination of
tenofovir and STC. A fourth trial involves 980 women in South Africa who
are being given an experimental vaginal gel based on tenofovir.
Studies in primates have shown the drugs do prevent transmission, the
Lancet report says.
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| 16th July |
Use It Or Lose It... |
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Aging men and erectile dysfunction
Permalink |
See
full article
from CBS News
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Men
who don't use their erections lose them, Finnish researchers find.
Aging men who have sex at least once a week have only half the risk of
developing erectile dysfunction as do men who have sex less often.
But once-a-weekers shouldn't gloat. More sex means even less ED risk.
Men who have sex at least three times a week are only one-fourth as
likely to get erectile dysfunction as are men who have less-than-weekly
sex.
Regular sexual activity preserves potency in a similar fashion as
physical exercise maintains functional capacity, conclude Juha
Koskimaki and colleagues at the University of Tampere, Finland.
The findings come from questionnaires mailed to Finnish men aged 55 to
75. Only the 989 men who did not have erectile dysfunction at the
beginning of the study - and who returned a second questionnaire five
years later - were included.
Interestingly, the study found that men who have less than one morning
erection per week are 2.5 times more likely to get erectile dysfunction
as are men who have two or three morning erections per week. But having
a morning erection every day did not lower a man's risk of erectile
dysfunction.
One major limitation of the study, Koskimaki and colleagues note, is
that they did not ask the men about masturbation, which might
conceivably have the same salubrious effect on erectile dysfunction as
intercourse. So as far as the researchers can tell, the study findings
apply only to sex with another person.
Doctors should support patients' sexual activity, they conclude.
Koskimaki and colleagues report their findings in the July 2008 issue of
The American Journal of Medicine.
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| 11th July |
Sex Really Does Get Better With Age... |
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At least amongst Swedish 70 year olds
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Based on
press release from
BMJ
See also paper:
Sexuality and Older People
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An
increasing number of 70 year olds are having good sex and more often,
and women in this age group are particularly satisfied with their sex
lives, according to a study published recently.
Knowledge about sexual behaviour in older people (70 year olds) is
limited and mainly focuses on sexual problems, less is known about
"normal" sexual behaviour in this age group.
Nils Beckman and colleagues from the University of Gothenburg in Sweden,
studied attitudes to sex in later life among four representative
population samples of 70 year olds in Sweden, who they interviewed in
1971-2, 1976-7, 1992-3, and 2000-1. In total, over 1 500 people aged 70
years were interviewed about different aspects of their sex lives
including sexual dysfunctions, marital satisfaction and sexual activity.
The authors found that over the thirty year period the number of 70 year
olds of both sexes reporting sexual intercourse increased: married men
from 52% to 98%, married women from 38% to 56%, unmarried men from 30%
to 54%, and unmarried women from 0.8% to 12%.
In addition, the number of women reporting high sexual satisfaction
increased, more women reported having an orgasm during sex and fewer
reported never having had an orgasm.
While the proportion of women reporting low satisfaction with their sex
lives decreased, the proportion of men reporting low satisfaction
increased. The authors suggest that this might be because it is now more
acceptable for men to admit "failure" in sexual matters.
They also note that the number of men reporting erectile dysfunction
deceased, whereas the proportion reporting ejaculation dysfunction
increased, but the proportion reporting premature ejaculation did not
change.
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| 1st July |
Older Guys are Having More Fun... |
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Travel and drugs make for more fun but there is an STI downside
Permalink |
See
full article
from the BBC
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What do I do
when my love is away.
(Does it worry you to be alone)
How do I feel by the end of the day
(Are you sad because you're on your own)
No, I get by with a little help from my V's,
Mmm I get high with a little help from my V's,
Mmm I'm gonna to try with a little help from my V's |
Sexually-transmitted infections have doubled in under a decade in people
over 45 and are now rising faster than in the young, research suggests.
The Health Protection Agency study said internet dating and erectile
dysfunction drugs were partly to blame.
Men were most likely to be affected, with increases in herpes, syphilis,
gonorrhoea and genital warts.
The study was published in Sexually Transmitted Infections.
The number of sexually transmitted infections is rising in both young
and old, despite sexual health campaigns urging people to avoid unsafe
sex.
The Health Protection Agency (HPA) looked at people coming to clinics in
the West Midlands between 1996 and 2003. The vast majority of these were
younger people - accounting for more than 95% in 2003. However, the
proportion of over-45s rose during the preceding eight years.
In total, 4,445 infections were detected in older people, with genital
warts accounting for almost half of these diagnoses. Herpes was the next
most common, with one-in-five diagnoses.
The overall rate of infections more than doubled over the eight-year
period from 16.7 per 100,000 population to 36.3 per 100,0000.
Dr Babtunde Olowokure, from the HPA's regional surveillance unit in
Birmingham, said: Older people are increasingly likely to be single
or undergoing relationship changes and are less likely to consistently
use condoms, perhaps because the risk of pregnancy no longer exists.
Increased international travel, internet dating, new drugs to counter
erectile dysfunction and overlapping sexual networks may also be
factors.
The government said using a condom was relevant for anyone having
unsafe sex...regardless of age.
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| 24th May |
Standing Alert and Rearing to Go... |
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Scientists work on libido boosting wonder drug
Permalink |
Could be some interesting consequences resulting from such a fun
sounding drug. Can't see governments and kill joys being very keen.See
full article from the Daily Mail
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Spoilt for choice?
Take them all |
Scientists claim to have discovered the secret of
sexual desire in a breakthrough that could change millions of lives
around the world. They are developing a "wonder pill" to generate sex
drive in both women and men who struggle with their libido.
The medication could also have the potential to boost fertility rates
and is believed to have the side-effect of encouraging weight-loss.
If successful, it could outsell the market-leading impotence drug
Viagra, as it bolsters the brain's desire for sex, whereas Viagra boosts
only physical capability.
Loss of libido affects more than a third of women and up to one in six
men, but experts report a growing problem with a decline in sexual
desire among stressed-out males.
The pill would use a hormone that releases Type 2 gonadotropin, which
drives the reproductive system in animals and humans. Tests on animals
have proved successful and researchers at the Medical Research Council's
Human Reproductive Sciences Unit in Edinburgh are working on an
equivalent for humans.
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| 23rd May |
Mums Want More Fun... |
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Surveying what Swedish mums want and get
Permalink |
See
full article
from The Local
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Swedish
mums want far more sex than they are actually getting, according to a
survey done by mummy magazine Mama.
Apparently, 43% of mums under the age of 29 own a dildo and almost 28%
of those questioned in the Mama survey have checked out online porn.
Having said that, 31% of those surveyed think their man's freshly
showered body is the greatest turn-on. Some mums would prefer a
completely different man altogether: 7% of mums have been unfaithful
after becoming mothers.
39% of the Swedish mums surveyed have had anal sex and 23% fantasize
about other men or women during sexual intercourse. 37% of the younger
mums (under age 29) have had lesbian fantasies. 2% have had group sex
and 23% of mums under the age of 29 use handcuffs as part of sex play.
But the most telling statistic in the survey - though not exactly
surprising - is that 60% of mums simply want more frequent sex. They
would like to have sex at least once or twice a week but only 38% of
them actually get it that often.
The Mama survey questioned 918 Mama readers in an internet survey
carried out in co-operation with RAM (Research-and analysis of media).
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| 1st May |
Inconsiderate Lovers... |
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70% of Thai girls don't cum
Permalink |
See
full article
from the
Nation
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A
recent global sex survey found that 70% of Thai women cannot achieve
orgasm.
Others reach orgasm through masturbation or having sex with another
woman, while 79% of Thai men climax during sex, according to research by
condom manufacturer Durex.
The survey revealed that 54% of Thai couples cannot reach orgasm, while
Italians, Spanish, Mexicans and South Africans are the most likely to
climax almost every time, at 66%. Only 24% of Chinese couples achieve
orgasm and the Japanese recorded 27%.
Sexologist Dr Pansak Sugkrakroek says most Thai women cannot reach
orgasm because their partners do not know how to help them.
They just care about themselves, he says. Making love is a
kind of art that they have to learn so that they can help their
partners.
Pansak says some couples end relationships because they cannot help each
other to reach orgasm.
Taking more time can have a significant impact on the quality of
orgasms. Those Thais fully satisfied with the intensity of their orgasms
spend on average 3.9 more minutes on foreplay than those who are not, he
adds.
Even though orgasms are not the be all and end all of sex, regularly
achieving them improves emotional and overall wellbeing, as well as a
bond with a partner. It can also help to reduce life's stresses.
Ideally, people should try to have orgasms regularly, he says.
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| 15th April |
A Call to the Blog... |
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An AEBN interview with call girl and blogger from Brazil
Permalink |
From
AEBN
See also
Bruna's brief movie career
The Scorpion's Sweet Venom is available at
UK Amazon
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Raquel
Pacheco, better known as “Bruna Surfistinha” is an ex-call girl from the
state of São Paulo, Brazil who became famous for sharing stories about
her life as a prostitute in the book The Scorpion's Sweet Venom: The
Diary of a Brazilian Call Girl. The book quickly has become a
tremendous success in Brazil, and in the US and in some European
countries as well. At 23 years old, Bruna has found love and left behind
her three-year prostitution and brief movie career.
AEBN: How was the beginning of your life as
a call girl?
Bruna: It was difficult because I was not
used to have sex with strangers. I have always been able to feel
pleasure though, and it helped me to relax.
AEBN: Would you have done things
differently if you could go back in time?
Bruna: I really don’t have any regrets. I
believe that everyone has the power to choose his or her own actions in
life. The only thing that I would have done differently is the way I
left my parents home. I simply ran away and left a goodbye letter to my
mother. If I could go back, I would try harder to get along with them.
AEBN: What do you say to couples interested
in improving their sexual performance?
Bruna: Sex is an important part of people’s
lives. I think that men should always respect their partners, and women
should try to compromise a little more when it comes to sex. Women need
to try to overcome the fear of sex and try new stimulants- like sex
toys, masturbation and anal sex, for their own pleasure – and not to
please their men. Women really need to get past the taboo of anal sex-
especially if they are Brazilian- because Brazilian men are crazy for
this practice! Believe me- if it wasn’t good, there would be no
homosexuals!
AEBN: What made you want to go public with
your life blog and your book?
Bruna: In 2004, the personal blogs became extremely popular among young
people in Brazil. I decided to create my own blog as a form of therapy
to work on my feelings when I felt lonely. I was a good writer, and I
got a lot of e-mails from people who could not believe that a call girl
could write so well, since most people think prostitutes don’t have any
intellectual capacity. This made me realize how strong the prejudice
against prostitution was. I decided that I would show people the other
side. After beginning my blog, it didn’t take very long before I was
invited to write a book about my story by two Brazilian publishers.
AEBN: What was the most difficult situation
you went through as a prostitute?
Bruna: I was in a motel room with this
crazy guy who started insulting me and tried to force me to do several
humiliating acts while we were having sex. He decided that he was not
going to pay me and that he wouldn’t let me leave the room. After a lot
of talking, he threw the money on the floor and let me out. It was
scary.
AEBN: Where do you want to be in five
years?
Bruna: I want to be an anonymous person
again, and I want to have a degree in Psychology. I want to have kids
and reconcile with my parents. I also want to enjoy the fruits of my
labor from my book, and of the movie based on it.
[According to the news portal “G1” from Brazilian
Rede Globo, Marcus Baldini (the director of Madam Satã) will direct the
movie The Scorpion’s Sweet Venom produced by TV Zero. It is due for
release in 2008].
AEBN: You mention the word “freedom” many
times in your book. What does freedom mean to you?
Bruna: Freedom is something everybody
wants, but most never reach. I was looking for freedom when I left my
parents house, but ended up becoming a prisoner of the prostitution
world. The fact that I’ve become a celebrity is just another example of
my freedom being taken away from me. I can’t simply do whatever I want-
I have to give away autographs and pay attention to my fans. To me,
freedom is an unattainable utopia.
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Holiest of Holies... |
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Modern attitudes to backdoor sex
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full article from The Sydney Morning Herald
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For
many Australian men anal sex is an unattainable dream, the holiest of
holies murmured about with mates yet rarely realised.
Studies put the number of men and women who've engaged in the act
anywhere between 15 and 40 percent, with half that number practicing
regularly.
The reason anal is such a rare bird comes down to both culture and
anatomy: like going back stage at a concert or picking food up off the
ground, anal sex is viewed as both forbidden and dirty by us up-tight
Aussies.
But then, fifty years ago, so were blow jobs.
Kath Albury, in her book Yes Means Yes says anal sex is seen
as men's sex, something only bad men ask for and only bad women agree
to.
...Read
full article
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| 27th February |
Absurd Trafficking Claims... |
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Men who pay for sex
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full article
from the BBC
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...Mark
says he used to spend a lot of time trying to pick women up in
clubs and bars. Now the 31-year-old business consultant from
London doesn't have the time: It is a mixture of the
convenience and the time aspect. I work very, very long hours.
He recognises there is a stigma, but it is one he utterly
rejects: Some of my friends are fully aware that I visit
prostitutes. Many of them do themselves. There is this fear that
it is in some way abusive. I would disagree with the idea that
nobody chooses to do it for a living.
Patrick views it as a totally mundane transaction between
adults: I see us as adults. I want to pay and someone wants
to sell. As long as I'm not hurting them in any way what harm am
I doing. I'm distributing my wealth to people who don't have it.
The trio all use a website,
PunterNet, where "punters" - the men who visit prostitutes -
go to discuss their encounters.
The men speak of forming friendships with the women in the
parlours and saunas.
There's always a lot of girls that I know, says Patrick:
We have a good camaraderie. I treat them as my friends and I
feel to some extent they confide and talk to me.
There is one aspect of the media coverage that all three men
find irritating - the idea that trafficked or coerced women make
up a significant proportion of prostitutes. Patrick, Mark and
Pete say they have never encountered a trafficked woman and that
conversations with prostitutes lead them to believe it is rare.
The perception is that everybody is trafficked, says
Mark: The figures bandied around for the numbers of
trafficked women are absurd. Mark's position is clear. If he
did meet a woman he suspected was trafficked he would do
something about it, there and then.
I've never come across one, says Patrick: All the
people I've seen, they have always been happy, we have talked
beforehand.
All three men are, needless to say, opposed to the Swedish model
that is now gaining currency in the UK where, the act of buying
sex is criminalised.
...Read the
full article
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| 26th February |
Not Negative... |
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Porn use does not lead to negative attitudes to women
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Based on an article from
Live News
The Porn Report is available at
US Amazon
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New
research has revealed the majority of Australian pornography consumers
are not shady perverts, but religious, monogamous men and
increasingly their partners.
The Porn Report, by academics Alan McKee, Kath Albury and
Catharine Lumby delves into the Australia's pornography industry and has
turned up some interesting results.
The report has found most pornography users do not have
disproportionately negative attitudes towards women.
When asked questions like Should women get equal pay for equal work?
and Would I mind working for a female boss? regular pornography
users did not fare any differently to non-users.
28% of pornography users are Labor voters and 24% for the Coalition,
while Greens voters (16%), Democrats (9%) and One Nation (3%) made up
the numbers.
The report also found Queenslanders and West Australians consumer more
porn per capita than the rest of the country.
Unsurprisingly, younger Australians are more liberal in their views
toward porn than their parents while young women and couples are
increasingly carving off a section of the adult market.
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| 24th February |
G for Good Luck... |
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G-Spot located but not always to be found
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full article
from the
Times
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A
search that has preoccupied many women for year, not to mention their
partners, may finally be over. An Italian scientist believes he may have
found the female G-spot.
Emmanuele Jannini, of the University of L’Aquila, claims to have found
the first anatomical evidence for the existence of the elusive and
controversial pleasure point, which some women say triggers powerful
vaginal orgasms. His research could also explain why so many women have
searched for their G-spot in vain: it suggests that not all of them have
one.
The G-spot is named after Ernst Gräfenberg, a German gynaecologist who
in 1950 proposed that a sensitive point on the vaginal wall could
provoke particularly intense orgasms in some women, which differ from
normal orgasms caused by clitoral stimulation. Finding it has since
become a staple of good-sex handbooks.
Its existence, however, has been widely questioned. Many women have
always found it impossible to locate, leading them to doubt their own
sexual skills or that of their partners, or to wonder whether the whole
idea of a vaginal pleasure point is a myth.
Dr Jannini has found anatomical differences between women who can have
vaginal orgasms and those who cannot and told New Scientist magazine
that it may be possible to develop an ultrasound test that can tell
women whether they have one.
He used ultrasound to examine nine women who said that they could have
vaginal orgasms and eleven who said that they could not. He found that
the tissue between the vagina and urethra was thicker in the first
group, which could be linked to their ability to have an orgasm.
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| 23rd February |
Doesn't Gel... |
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Anti AIDS gel proves ineffective
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From the Bangkok Post
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An
anti-Aids gel tested on humans in Thailand and other countries has
proved ineffective in preventing transmission of the HIV infection from
men to women as hoped.
The study was unable to show Carraguard's efficacy in preventing
male-to-female transmission of HIV, said principal investigator
Khatija Ahmed of Population Council, an NGO behind the vaginal drug and
trials.
Carraguard, a candidate microbicide produced by the Population Council,
had spent three years in large-scale "phase three" trials, was unable to
prevent transmission of the Aids virus, the investigators said. But the
gel was found to be safe for long-term vaginal use, a finding they
described as extremely promising.
It is the third major setback in the seven-year-long drive to develop a
vaginal microbicide, the term for a cream that would block or kill the
AIDS virus during vaginal intercourse.
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| 25th January |
Protection for Unprotected Sex... |
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Antiretroviral drugs may prevent HIV transmission
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From Yahoo News see
full article
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Antiretroviral
drugs used to treat people with HIV might also prevent vaginal
transmission of the virus, claims a study by researchers at the
University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center at Dallas.
The vast majority of new HIV infections worldwide, which total about
6,800 new transmissions daily, occur through unprotected vaginal sex
with an infected partner.
For this study, the researchers used special mice with fully developed
human immune systems that produced the infection-fighting cells
specifically targeted by HIV in people. The Texas team found that daily
doses of antiretroviral drugs before and after exposure to HIV can
prevent vaginal transmission of the virus.
The study was published in the Jan. 14 online issue of PLoS Medicine.
Our motivation is to look for interventions that can be implemented
rapidly and have the potential to make a big difference, senior
study author Dr. J. Victor Garcia-Martinez, a professor of internal
medicine, said: We don't want something in 10 years. We want
female-controlled prevention measures now. Our observations support the
potential for antiviral drugs to function as an effective pre-exposure
prophylaxis against the further spread of AIDS.
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4th January |
Incriminating Evidence... |
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A new reason for ensuring clean underwear
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Thanks to
PattayaRag
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